(Has anyone discovered) General Family Relationships

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Inspirated by a psychiatrists who visited me lately, I found out about my relationships to my family, and what they mean to me:
Generally speaking, I've got

a) a sister
b) a husband
c) a son


A l l  my relations can be reduced to it:
- nasty sisters who envy, compeat or anything
- husbands who want my money, but don't want to employ me. Who have affairs with sisters.
- sons who rely on me, who are 'still small' etc.

Do you know how this "Making of Generalized Relationships" is called?
Do you know this, too?
Is it of any help to you?


THANKS!

tine

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I have been with my husband my whole life through. But now I enter the sisters.
and suddenly I have problems to think straight and to talk about my feelings ! It blinds me with hurt. (To have left my husband and be with my sister)

My own acute and severe problems in therapy doesn't matter anymore . Since my sister makes a therapy, too!.

Being someone's else mental problem, talking and thinking about e.g. this 'sister', hurts severely and physically!

It eats me! I'm her mental food! Sick as I am! It hurts so much thinking of it!
And I'm afraid of becoming mentally sick!

As my sister - she must be! - with all this aking, violence and hurt!.

[sure]

One of my sisters is dreaming of Kohl and all the local politicians 24h per day in front of the television. She even f s them during night and thus, is just a Nazi whore who meanwhile looks like Angela Merkel.
My sisters father again has been a violent drinker and he never regret Nazi germany. He looked a bit like Kohl.
I guess my sister thinks this father of hers actually is Kohl! ... and she fancies him very much at night...! I feel violence and mental abuse in there.
This Merkel-look a like-sister liked to talk to her Kohl-father about me. In a way she leads her father to me. .... and I feel Nazi violence and (mental) abuse.
This sister stole my clothes and wears them as they were hers, carries my children's haircut out of the age of 3 till adolesence, and instantly tries to contact my collegues for to copy my therapy.

What to do about it when it's mental abuse, and the guy's long dead?
The revenge of a Nazi father?