pert-5, re your #22
"a change of perspective" and "an intuitive change in perspective"
I've been writing about 1st and 2nd order "shift of perspective", even the first shift to second order is "therapeutic", the "highest" or "ultimate" you write about BOGGLING ( for those never there).
The way I describe the first two levels of perspectives, is like interogation room one way glass, you can't see out of the room but from outside you can look in. Also dreams and lucid dreams. Say during a nightmare, your IN the dream, even fearful. During a lucid dream, you witness the 'action', the dream characters "cannot" say, 'Hey look, we're being observed'." Levels of perspectives are asymmetrical (one way). So when you try to tell someone at lower level, what you 'see' at higher level, they can't "compute" that info.