Has your life ever turned completely upside down

[warmblanket]

not just momentarily but over 5 years, every day has been bad? if i told u you'd understand but i cant tell anyone, and your trying to struggle to get it together....do u think it'll be better soon? sorry ive no one to talk to right now...thanks

[sakoz]

You ask the readers here; :"Do you think it'll be better soon?" That question is like going to the doctor and not telling him where it hurts, but asking him;"do you think it'll be better soon ?"
I respect you privacy, you can't tell anyone, but you can refer to 'it" as a 'problem' a 'dilemma'.  get a 'handle on it'. Be a little more specific , without revealing what you don't want to be known.
Tell us what your experiencing as a result of that "problem/dilemma/it". Your reactions can 'get better' even if not the 'problem/dilemma/it'.