question concerning a fetish

[moonfairy]

Several months ago I received a private message (not in this forum--I've just joined this forum) from a woman who asked if I was collared.  I had no idea what collared meant so I had to look it up.  It appears to be some sort of fetish where there is a dominant and submissive person. 

I replied back to her that I wasn't into that.  From then on she seemed to be very nasty to me on the boards.  Everytime I would post she would pepper me with questions...almost like an interrogation.  I have always been polite in my responses.

Even when I first joined that forum she seemed very dominating.  But, I just let it go and enjoyed myself on the forum.  From what I know of her she is married and is retired.  I"m not sure what prompted her to pm me with that question. 

Now she seems to be on full attack mode with me.  She's very brazen and just plain mean. 

Is there anyone who can tell me what sort of problem she has with me or maybe about people who delve into fetishes like collared?

Thank you for any help

[S. Earl Martin]

I am not familiar with the term collared ,but I can understand what you are saying. Maybe an S&M term. She probably gets off on bullying other people. So she is trying to do that to you. A lot of people I have encountered on the internet are just plain mean. I think it is because they are anonymous and take out their petty dislikes on the net. They probably want to be mean to someone in their real life, but can't so they use people on the net as a stand in. I would think the problem she has is not with you specifically. She just has a problem and you are convinent. Could also be because you arn't reacting and being mean back she focused on you?

On the other hand I have meet some of the nicest and helpful people I have ever meet on the net. Many on this sight. Peace Earl