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talsiber

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Studying issues
« on: June 04, 2011, 06:27:42 PM »
The problem is that because of my memories I have connect studying for some kind of school with some bad feelings like stress, pressure etc. I would like to ask if any of you could tell me a way to make my self change that.

In more details, since I was a kid my parents always told me to study or whenever they saw me around they were asking me if I had study or if I did my homework etc. The problem is that the pressure was a really heavy one and since junior school till now they always just focus on me studying as a subject to every talk we may have (probably they find it the easier topic to discuss or something). That pressure worked while I was living with them and made me study for the school but since I came to the university and start living alone here I had partly escape from that pressure since they could only apply it now by phone or when I'm there for holidays.
The thing is that I have make a connection to studying with that stress and all those bad feelings I was getting from that pressure so now that I'm here alone I just can't persuade my self to study for the univ. I can study for anything else or read general books etc but I can't study for anything connected to the univ no matter how interesting it is.
I now need to fix that mistake and break this connection so I can study for univ without a problem. Any ideas how can this happen would be welcome.

talsiber

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Re: Studying issues
« Reply #1 on: June 06, 2011, 11:27:25 AM »
If it's not a theoretical topic or something about sex, you are not going to get any replies in this forum :p

In any case I have try a few things and it seems to be working so I wont need you anymore ;)

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Re: Studying issues
« Reply #2 on: June 06, 2011, 11:32:03 AM »
yes, pretty much.

this is not a forum to help people solve personal problems some people just help if they want to, when they can.
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Re: Studying issues
« Reply #3 on: June 06, 2011, 02:37:10 PM »
No need to explain yourselves :p

It is a bit disappointing but it's also to be expected. After all theories are much safer that practical advices and they certainly do not contain the same intimidation or responsibility, although I find practical situations a lot more fun and interesting. And well, we don't really need to say much about why sex issues attract people, do we ? hehehe.

 

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