Someone I know in my family act in a way that negatively effects everyone else in the family. She has what may or may not be Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. She keeps most things in the house (which she identifies as "hers", showing a strong particular feeling of ownership over zseemingly unimportant things like a wooden rack for drying dishes.) She keeps them in an exact, particular place, and if anybody moves them, or removes them, it causes her to go through extreme mental anguish... sometimes crying, accusations of bullying, occasionally flipping out. The problem is, the house is really unkempt, and it is largely because of this condition. If one person in the family tries to clean something that really shouldn't be where it is, and it happens to be something she doesn't want moved, you can believe it that she won't rest until it is put back the way it was. When she comes home and sees things moved or cleaned, she'll investigate and usually react in the way above if its something she has an attachment to. They're not usually important, or really personal things; they're usually arbitrary, impersonal things, (like, again, the wooden rack that was in the kitchen.) Other examples are dusty old, empty bottles that once held soap or something to that effect... in the bathroom. If you move them, or clean them, a similar reaction will result. She will persist in acting this way, in a state of extreme mental anguish, until things are returned. Does anyone know what this is? A name? A remedy? Does it sound familiar?
To add another example, I cleaned out a drawer in the kitchen. It holds insulated pan-holder things for taking pans out of the oven. It also holds all manner of miscellaneous junk... old, discarded junk paper (like dentist appointment slips from 10 years ago), KFC wet napkin packets, little, salt & pepper pouches... just junk. I cleaned it out today, but left these things in a box in another room. I just checked, and it's all right back where it was. Just junk that nobody uses or even knows is there. Oh--and the wooden rack? That's back too.