Capricous behaviour

[Drewau2005]

Hi,





Thanks in advance for your comments.




My problem is that my fiancee seems to swing from being all over me to chastising me for 'not doing enough' or 'not appreciating what she does'. I find her claims incredible, not only because they are inaccurate but beacuse they seemingly come out of nowhere and without warning. The last time was two weeks ago when we went to dinner and the cinema, everything was perfect and she held my hand all night. I drove her home and we kissed goodnight. The next day she sent me a text saying that her 'love for me grew everday'. I sent her a text back saying 'I loved her too'. The next day I sent her a text saying we should get soup, as the weather was cold. Her reply text was, 'since July the only people who have provided her soup was the Unemeployment Office and her family' I was gobsmacked by that reply for a number of reasons. First I have paid for everything, almost without fail, since we have been going out as well as provide her with funds for various things and expensive presents. (she has been unemployed since July). Also I asked her to marry me in September and she accepted and I agreed to support her completely when we are married, which is supposed to be in March. This I might add includes taking on debts that she has built up. The second reason I was astounded with her reply was that she had told me that she had been estranged from her family for ten years and if she ever got sick not to tell them. So I asked if she had been talking to her family and she said she had since I proposed. Since then I have sent her flowers and said I am there for her and reiterated my love and support, but she responds with curt texts or not at all. I have tried to call, and her phone is either turned off or she won't answer and she never calls back if I leave a message. I literally don't know what is happening here, we have had many many months of a strong loving relationship and much fun and now this comes out of the blue. What do I do? Please help.

[alakiaz]

Simply leave her. She doesn't deserve to have someone like you.