Controlling suspicions

[knight]

Spouses who get suspicious about their partners activities must clear the thought about it by understanding the fact.

If the suspicion is not cleared based on mutual consent it might eventually result in breaking of the relationship and it must be avoided at all costs.

[anaklio]

Control issues are very common. We often want to control the behavior of others. It's a waste of time as it can't be done. It's important to control yourself as that is all you have control over. I understand that when you love someone, you get close to them and then their decisions affect you. This is a form of dependence. It can be broken by having many positive people and things in your life. That way, one thing will not affect you as much.

[liza123]

Spouses who get suspicious about their partners activities must clear the thought about it by understanding the fact.

If the suspicion is not cleared based on mutual consent it might eventually result in breaking of the relationship and it must be avoided at all costs.

Suspicion could prove really dangerous...trust is important in a marriage. If you are suspicious about your spouse, then, you ask questions to your spouse, your spouse respond negatively due to your lack of trust. Best thing is to avoid suspicion.....try to verify them without asking your spouse unless you really, really cannot help it