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Augustyne

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Dreaming about it together?
« on: August 27, 2009, 08:20:54 AM »
My friend and I have been having dreams that relate between us. His last dream was of him losing me in the woods and then my mother chasing him in the woods and stabbing him with a knife, a few days before I had a dream where I had killed him. I don't remember what I actually used because I was so upset when I woke up and couldn't stop crying. Then the day after that he had a dream about us being in an apartment and I was standing in the way of him fighting his mortal enemy (Himself) and he stabbed me with scissors because I was in the way. . . . Yes my friend has some anger issues but we've been working on them and he doesn't get mad, rarely. I just want to know when are the crazy killing dreams going to stop? Does it have something to do with us? We aren't fighting at all, so that wouldn't make sense, are we fighting each other subconsciously? Someone help!!
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Re: Dreaming about it together?
« Reply #1 on: August 28, 2009, 04:27:23 PM »
Dreams like this often don't mean what they first appear to mean.
Perhaps you both have a subconscious urge to be better than the other? To try and outdo each other?
To kill someone in a dream generally means to want to get rid of an aspect in that person that you either don't like about them, or you see in yourself. Maybe that's what your dreams mean, because you mentioned that you are working on his anger issues? Killing him in your dream could be your way of "killing off" his anger issues.

Not sure if that was any help. I tend to analyse my dreams quite often, so I had to reply to this. :)
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Re: Dreaming about it together?
« Reply #2 on: August 29, 2009, 08:44:04 AM »
When you had your dream, what did you feel? did you feel good? did you feel angry? did you have a 'bad' feeling? the same goes with your friend.

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Re: Dreaming about it together?
« Reply #3 on: August 30, 2009, 01:22:54 AM »
To Liza123: bad feelings? Yes! We both woke up in tears and called each other to make sure everything was okay.....
To Mello-Kun: Cool, I do the same but I couldn't figure this one out. Thanks.
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Re: Dreaming about it together?
« Reply #4 on: September 24, 2009, 07:46:10 AM »
To Liza123: bad feelings? Yes! We both woke up in tears and called each other to make sure everything was okay.....
To Mello-Kun: Cool, I do the same but I couldn't figure this one out. Thanks.

I have read books about dreams, etc. But, I have always felt that the person to decipher the dream would be the dreamer himself/herself(hence, my queries in the above post). When I asked about  'bad feeling', I was refering to your actual emotion/feeling in the dream, something tells you that something bad is going to happen. Not your reaction to the dream(refer to comments below)

I think that we do tend to 'cry' when we are killing or seeing blood(it is a natural tendency). Our emotions take over especially if you are not 'used' to dreaming such things? Hope that you get my point. Your dream could actually be a turning point. Out with the old and in with new. A process of healing. Do you get what I mean? Killing in dreams  is not always bad though our mind may think so. Hence, we may end up being scared or emotional. It could be something positive since your friend has taken positive action towards his anger issues. Anger causes lots of problem, hence, it could be something positive and something like a turning point.

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Re: Dreaming about it together?
« Reply #5 on: October 01, 2009, 12:49:36 AM »
Simply because....you like each other, jamming, and have a similarity interest.. and about of the killings..i guess that youve hid some of things in a box..which is..u cant tell or express to your friend.. maybe anger/envy or etc...
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