Friend is so angry at me, gives me a silent treatement, help

[rockit]

Help... help wanted! I am gonna write the thing down. Thankx for reading and advicing in advance. Thank You!

My work is full of stress, and as U know I am sitting in the same room with a person I wanna be friends with, and we were friends already well, till yesterday.

Anyway, yesterday it got broken…. Jesus… it was hell… Don’t wanna lose her…

I messed it up again, was verbally aggressive towards my friend and coworker yesterday, and she was so upset. Still is.

I said I would like to say sorry, and she said if I do it she would say: get lost.

But she asked if I wanted to eat lunch, so we went together but with no word.

After we came back I tried to reconcile again, and she said she didn’t wanna talk to me, didin’t wanna see me and look at me.

So I wrote an apology letter, placed it at her desk, and asked her - if she finds time - please to read it. She said no single word & her face was red. I left home immediately just to give her space, with no word.

Today, the letter is still at her desk, and I don’t know if she read it.

We are working and sitting so close, we had two comps almost sticked, so today in the morning I took my laptop and sat at the other desk just to give her space – now we are sitting in front of each other but with about 2 meters distance. She saw me doing rearrangements, because she was earlier today.

If possible I want her back... It is so hard to handle the friendship.

I think I should keep away for 2-4 days, but we work in the same room, alone, so maybe just to be here and do my job not speking to her unless she starts.

Should I took 4 days off, and not see her completely? Don’t wanna create a scene.

Today she went home with no single word… It hurts as hell, I feel it is over Sad

What to do - giving space, a gift?

I feel devastated.

Need help… Again.

[MJAlex]

I would say space is a good thing right now. It gives time to let the heat cool down. Then, while she is less bitter to the situation, maybe she'll be more open to an apology. A couple days could work, or maybe even leave her a message saying whenever she's ready to talk, you will be too. It hurts to lose a friend, and it may seem easy to ruin a friendship, but it's definitely not a problem to fix one! I hope this helps, and I hope it works out!