Have an attraction to my brother in law

[alakiaz]

I am married and have a daughter. i'm not a type who creates fight at house. I have a very nice and happy family. I feel that i have attraction to my brother in law coz he has the same mentallity as mine unlike my husband. My husband is 33 and brother in law in late 30s. I also feel that my brother in law has attractions but we both for sure will not take any step further.
I feel like i want to keep on having this type of relationship if we can call forever. What do u think? is that wrong?

[SWM]

I am married and have a daughter. i'm not a type who creates fight at house. I have a very nice and happy family. I feel that i have attraction to my brother in law coz he has the same mentallity as mine unlike my husband. My husband is 33 and brother in law in late 30s. I also feel that my brother in law has attractions but we both for sure will not take any step further.
I feel like i want to keep on having this type of relationship if we can call forever. What do u think? is that wrong?

hi alakiaz, so you have a nice and happy family, you dont have as much in common with your huband as you do with his brother and you feel a strong sense of attraction between you and your brother in law. you would like to get sense of what other people think about you having a relationship with your brother in law.

so what are the possible problems for you in having a relationship with your husbands brother? what good might come out of this new relationship?

ps. i edited your poll to make it easier for people to vote.

[Shell]

I think it's natural to be attracted and feel connected to people other than your spouse.  We're all humans and we constantly ping off each other. 

I think that as long as you both estabish boundaries and agree to keep things focused on improving yourselves and not on taking you away from your husband (and his wife if he is married), then it can be a healthy relationship.