How old were you when you lost your VIRGINITY?

[NataEames]

I was 15.

[acousticeagle]

Hi Nata. I'm curious to know why it is that you've posed this question to the forum. Certainly not to compare notes...?

I am wondering why you would ask this question and then make a brief statement about yourself. Is there a more involved reason why you would want to put this question to the forum, something that's on your mind about this topic and you're having trouble elucidating it?

[NataEames]

acousticeagle,

that's interesting. i must have asked this question subconsciously, without thinking. i dont really remember what was going through my head when i posted it (maybe im too sex-obsessed lately lol)

its interesting that you brought this up. I would like to hear your theory on this

[acousticeagle]

its interesting that you brought this up. I would like to hear your theory on this

I could echo this above quote back to you. I think it could be a good thinking exercise for you to find your own reason for why you might have raised this question as a new topic. There are reasons for why we do everything  - so I would suggest trying to find out what the motivation might have been for you to write.

[NataEames]

Well, like i said, i really dont remember what i was thinking while posting that. I'm really not in the right state of mind lately, im going through depression.
So whatever reason i wrote that for might have been a manifestation of my depressive state.
Or maybe i was just comparing notes.
Thanks anyway

[Outsider]

I was 28; I saved myself for marriage.

[pert -5]

Actually acousticeagle, studies show that if you learn the ages at which 50 people lost their virginity, you will suddenly know the meaning of life.

It's sad, I was drinking beer before I ever got laid, or maybe I got laid because I started drinking the beer.  I don't know, I've got no answer for it.

[NataEames]

Well as long as you weren't piss drunk when you first got laid (cause that wouldn't be learning the meaning of life, that's just depressing) LOL

[ELADA]

im not sure how that counts exactly, but my virginity was taken from me when i was 13 by two men who raped me

[NataEames]

Oh my god, Elada, that is horrible! I really hope you don't take it the wrong way, i had no intention of hurting anyone writing that question. I feel really bad now, you must think I'm a terrible person. I'm so sorry.

[ELADA]

No Nata its ok. I'm in no way offended. Please don't feel so bad, I've never told anyone about this before. Maybe by writing it out on the forum, it will make me braver to open up to my family about it. And I would want to put this story out into the open some day so young girls are more careful and less foolish around other people.

[NataEames]

I really hope so, Elada!

You need to keep on and overcome your bad times, once you do you will be stronger than ever.

That i know from personal experience.

[heather64]

Elada - That is very sad I'm sorry you had to go through that and it might be healing to share your story with others.



To answer the OP, I was 18.

[jonstuard]

I really want to say. I am 26 male and still a virgin, never kissed a girl. I don't hate my life, but this think starts to bother me very much.