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[S. Earl Martin]

I could make a judgement here about him being a Muslem, but in truth I have seen this kind of behavior from other men who either where other religions or had no real religious belief system. Would it be possible for you to attend some kind of counseling? I don't know were you are at. I realize that certain religions still see women as property. Or to defy the husband can actually be a crime.
I am praying for you. Peace

[gone]

I wondered why the need to mention he was muslim, maybe because they are of a culture conditioned to view women as inferior. But that aside your husband regardless of religion sounds like an idiot. If he's always been that way, he'll always be that way. Do you want a relationship with such an idiot for the rest of your days?

You trying to understand why he is like this.. quote.. "Perhaps he just doesn't know what love is, or how to express it. It may not have been modelled before him when he was growing up"....

Is a big mistake, you can never know, only speculate to try and justify his behvour. Which won't lead to any solutions except you trying to understand, but ultimately you need to understand you are married to a nasty man.

You could try counselling as suggested above.
At least you recognise your husband is verbally abusing you, if this continues it will become the norm and there will be a danger you'll just accept it out of familiarity. But the hurt wont stop. Remember he is verbally abusing you. You should seek research and advice on this.
BTW happy birthday.

[stickels]

Neither of you should be giving any advice to this woman. Just because you fuck around on this website doesnt mean you can go giving out advice like this. Plus, pretty sure the poster is fucking with you(just like the matrix post). People sign up then post dumb shit and you all reply to it. The matrix poster had like less then 5 posts. This chick has 1. You guys are getting trolled and you dont even know it. Dumb asses.

[SWM]

stickels the point of your last post was to:

1. tell psychomother and earl martin that they dont have a right to give advice on this forum.
2. to explain that people are signing up to this forum posting questions and other people are answering the questions.
3. to tell the members of the forum that they do not recognise a troll.


if the posters are "fucking with us" and posting "dumb shit" why do you give a fuck what people post in response?

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Stickels, it may bother you that there are bogus posters, but it does not bother me and I would happily reply to bogus posters knowing they were bogus if I choose to.
We do not all come from your point of view, as soon as you realise and accept 'difference' you are on your way to becomming an adult. I thought you'd gone to join other dicks. If you hang aroung and observe before spouting off you may learn how others operate, and you will learn they are not like you. The matrix poster could have been young, english may not their first language, there are many posters here from all over the world, from all different cultures, all different conditioning, you shouldn't condemn people because they are not like you.

[SWM]

stickels has gone to play with the dicks he was thinking about.

[S. Earl Martin]

I think stickels likes being abused. 

[pert -5]

Yeah, real mature guys!  For shame.  *shakes head*

(This coming from a guy who made a post about how to permanently reduce the size of one's penis and then rickrolled everyone who followed the link...)