this supposes a couple of things and i don't like the double standards.
Firstly i don't think a woman that has only had two partners in life is full of worldly answers , what can she know about life ?
Determinant for strong relationship may have no relationship to sexual frequency?
Other factors exist.......
Your idea suggests one can have many sexual partners and the experience is meaningless.
For many it is a liberating experience that makes them a greater person.
You then suppose the fewer partners the more meaningful the relationship.
Doesn't hold water as an idea.
* "and who detached emotionally and physically,"
This could describe many people who are married!
* I don't doubt that multiple partners can be sign of disfunction but it is not the case as often as you would think.
Some people just like sex and it can be very honest and giving, which is all you can ask for.
* "I believe a woman who had this past and who has built her self-esteem and now in a committed relationship has difficulty in attaching physically and emotionally in a relationship, i.e. differentiating sex from love."
* Self esteem can be a problem for people who have conservative sexual attitudes and experiences.
Commitment is another issue, finding the right person can help?
Many people commit when they should not.
Attitudes which destroy a marriage have more to do with societal and family values than sexual past.
Most people give up and find marriage to challenging , failing to take responsibility for their actions.
"Grass is greener on the other side".
Sub-text of life and values we see in our childhood and those we aquire really determine how we function as an adult .
People from religious homes don't always turnout as we would expect , which is why i mention the sub-text.
Conversely some people have clear goals which they have worked out in spite of their past.
Kids from broken homes or blended families don't always have the right imprinting and i feel for them they face difficulties acting outside the situations they know. Parents in these situations are not always honest and saying what you mean sometimes doesn't happen because you have your own problems.
Personal responsibility and that which we take towards others is well marked and full of choices.
For some it is difficult?
In all our behavior is a reflection of our experiences and the state of our heart