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GeekyQc

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territoriality
« on: July 10, 2011, 04:41:07 AM »
A day or 2 before I went for a walk and there was someone with a dog on a sidewalk, knowing so many dog owners give their pet too much leeway, I took the side of the person and the dog was guided on the street and I didn't have to worry about the consequences of being attacked. I don't know if such leeway is given from disregard or if they're transferring their feeling that their pet is a cuddly-nice little doggy without threat ; but in reality, just like any stranger (person), a strange animal is just as threatening (or even more so because of the added difference from specie difference), even if "just" on psychological level (a pocket dog won't really hurt but one would still feel attacked).

That got me wondering exactly what goes into people mind when they're coming on the same side ; whether alone by habit or because they're walking side-by-side with a companion. I suspect there's a part of thoughtlessness (about the potential problem) but I also suspect there's something else going on ; perhaps s/he "lost" some public conflict earlier and is trying to take revenge on a faceless public figure, perhaps I look like someone s/he manipulated and is hoping that I'll fall for his/her charisma (other than violence, one manipulate with charisma right?), or perhaps just is feeling bad and want to take it out one someone. I'm not saying that person thought of the underlying anti-social behavior but perhaps s/he did in the past which resulted in relief and is just duplicating that, or perhaps there's a lot of emotional baggage and do things without having them come up to the surface (as in truly think about it, like an IQ test or something).

So I'm wondering other than truly innocent carelessness, what goes into such seemingly territorial behavior.

Update1:

Rephrasals for clarity. Please don't hesitate to ask a question or make a request.
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Re: territoriality
« Reply #1 on: July 10, 2011, 07:42:10 PM »
territorial behaivour is related to ownership or identification to space and the protection of that space by what ever territorial behaviour. ie urinating if your an animal or fences if your a human.  we can also become defensive or protective of our personal space in a non personal environment. ie sitting next to some one on a train.

your example if it was territorial appears to be similar to the latter.

what goes into it is similar to other defence mechanisms that people build up to defend against loss or attack but with territory it is the protection of the domain of the self but it is an externalised self. which is ultimately for security of phsyical and psychological self.

all of the other suggestions you made are just as possible.
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Re: territoriality
« Reply #2 on: July 10, 2011, 08:23:58 PM »
people build up to defend agains loss or attack but with territory it the protection of the domain of the self but it is an externalised self. which is ultimately for security of phsyical and psychological self.

Well I do realize that going out of my home is threatening but act socially, as within social norms not enjoying the society, and whether justified or not I think people that doesn't make the same effort are irritating (thinking a more common word). I wonder if I should be ever so conceding or start acting like them.

I'd be glad to hear a different theory on why it is so hard for some people to leave place for others coming the opposite way on a sidewalk.