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« on: October 23, 2009, 08:09:09 PM »
How do you rebuild trust in a marriage after lying to your spouse?

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Re: Trust
« Reply #1 on: October 24, 2009, 02:22:11 PM »
one thing which definitely helps is not lying again.

but it takes time. what happened?

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Re: Trust
« Reply #2 on: October 24, 2009, 03:40:17 PM »
It Doesn't matter a lot when you have lied once, And Later on you accept that you have lied and you are sorry for speaking false, This is a positive point where Trust develops, So if you are disappointed and you think that she might not come back again to you, You should not be sad of that, Try best, Don't loose it or you are gone.

Btw? can you share up what happened, I'd love to help you seriously.

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« Reply #3 on: October 24, 2009, 06:26:12 PM »
it is nt possible to rebuild trust.. but if you still respect the relationship.. love your spouse sincerely.. and rest will be happiness and hope

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Re: Trust
« Reply #4 on: December 05, 2009, 12:21:47 AM »
I think that first it might be an idea to first examine why the lie in the first instance? For what reason - for there is always a reason - for there to be a falsehood uttered or done in an intimate relationship of trust, such as is marriage. From that place of understanding/awareness you can then ask why you might have a trust issue yourself with your spouse - hense the lie - (or ask why the marriage is somehow not fulfilling your needs/expectations) and work on it from that (possible) root cause.

 

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